Adam and Grant's Blog

Wednesday, October 18, 2006

Wednesday PM - From this day forward, I can make no promises about the frequency, length, continuity, or anything else regarding my posts. Grant has been home for just under 24 hours, and already our world has changed. No plans are safe, no schedule is etched in stone. But we don't care! It is impossible to put into words how great it is to have him home. He's a very good baby, and only cries when he's hungry (translation: Heidi and I are late with his feeding), or if he's having a little gas. Both problems are easily remedied. One problem he has from being a premie is reflux, or spitting up his milk. Last night we discovered that as long as we hold him sitting up while he sleeps, he doesn't lose anything. That's fine only it makes it difficult for us to sleep sitting up, but we're working through these minor details. After last night, we've decided to have a night nurse for the first few days until we re-establish our routine.

Today Heidi and I had a "comedy-of-errors" event that we probably won't ever forget. I was in the process of changing Grant, when I started dropping things on the floor. She came over to help me, but was still hooked up to some of the breast-pumping equipment. When she bent over to pick up the things on the floor, breast milk went everywhere. But wait, it gets better. Now destracted by the mayhem going on beside me, I fail to notice that Grant has managed to remove the cloth used to prevent him from spraying during the diaper change. The next thing I know is that he has made himself into a fountain, spraying everything within a 3 ft. radius. Eventually everything was thrown away or cleaned, and we survived what was the first of what will probably be many more of these "event's".

Our happiness at having Grant home is only tempered by the fact that Adam is still in the hospital. The concern of having them in two different places is now reality, and it will take some time for us to come up with a schedule that gets Adam his time. The hospital's child life specialist will spend time with him and some of the nurses also do a little extra when they can. But Mom and Dad need their time too, so it will just be a matter of putting together a schedule (see "schedule" reference in first paragraph). He weighs 4lb 4oz as of last night. The docs have decided to fix his ostomy next week, which means he will be back in the Level 3 NICU. We're a little apprehensive about that as it is surgery with general anesthesia, but all the doctors say he's ready to get this out of the way. Once this is done his growth rate should increase, and he should be on his way to coming home. We're still not sure if he'll come home before or after his heart surgery.

Heidi is out shopping for more stuff, and Grant is starting to fuss for his 6:00 feeding (at 6:15), so I'll close with the hope that I can get the pictures on the Yahoo site before I go to sleep. But remember, no promises...

2 Comments:

Blogger Aboleta said...

Hi Family:

I know to read the blog and any calls...since the HOMECOMING OF GRANT, is newness to the Eastus Family. WONDERFUL!!!!!

It sounds like all you just need some time to find the rhythm, (it comes naturally) and then lucky all of you, having a good baby, “Grant.”

Can't wait for some photos and of course.. all of your faces. It's great to read the "reality story," knowing you are finding new YOU! I am planning to see you soon to help with Grant, if you need me while Adam is having his challenges meet.
Please gives love and kisses to all of you and know I am holding always for updates. I continue to pray for your new family and know being still, helps to pray for you and your boys. I miss you lots!

Love and more...xoxox

Nanna

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Blogger Ourea said...

WAYNE + HEIDI - Just caught up on the boys. Glad to hear that Grant is home. That's great! NOw all you need is to clone yourselves and the logisitc problem is solved. I can't decide whether to call the boys Rocky and Rocky II, or Rocky and Bullwinckle, or Romulus and Remus (but don't remember the story on them so better not.) THere are other twins in history and mythology that come to mind. It's jsut a matter of finding the names that fit. They remind me of something when I read your blog but can't quite put my finger on it. It will come to me - probably at about 30,000 feet someday. Loved Nanna's response. You're lucky to have her. Nancy ps. Tell Adam the doctors need to get all his stuff taken care of and send him home soon. My arms look like they belong to Arnold Schwartzenegger from lifting those pompoms! I'm trying to figure out how to lift them with my stomach ( now there's an isometric vision for you!)

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